Wednesday, July 01, 2009
Aloha Guy is in Hawaii for a vacation and sent me a postcard yesterday.
Oh, and it turns out he's not QUITE divorced yet. All the paperwork has been filed, but it's not final for a couple months.
I know from personal experience and from dating a guy that had just gotten a divorce that it takes time to recover from something like that. There's a lot of emotions you have to deal with, and then with kids involved, it definitely takes everyone time to learn the new relationships.
Aloha Guy seems a little too clingy to me, and after a text message that he ended "Love ya" and a multiple-page handwritten love letter, I told him to back off. Attentive is sweet, but his actions have made me feel uncomfortable. Oh well. As my sister Steph said, "Aloha means 'hello' and 'goodbye.'"